you're all beautiful no matter what, smile beautiful :)
<3
February 2012
87 posts
This isn't a submission, but more like a short story. Today I was at the dentist filling out papers to get my wisdom teeth removed. & two things happened, my hips were wider than the chairs in the waiting room as I sat down. It was so embarrassing. I felt so fat and scrunched up and suffocated. Secondly, the papers asked my weight, and in those tiny chairs I struggled to hide my weight from my boyfriend & other people by sitting very awkwardly. It was.. ugh. I hate those typical fat situations.
Omg I know how you feel!!! That sounds awful! I hopeyou’re feeling better :(
I just wanted to say that this blog is absolutely amazing! I've been in the process of losing weight, and I'm now down to a U.S. size 12 in pants and a U.S. size M in shirts/dresses. I was about 195 lbs last year, and I've managed to come down to 156. At the time I didn't think to look at any of the blogs people put up about weight loss/etc., but I'm glad I stumbled across this one. I can definitely relate to what you all post. Thanks so much! :)
Thank you! And good luck! :)
Okay I'm all the way back to November 3rd and I just wanted to say ou girls are fuckin gorgeous as hell!
<3 you’re making us blush!
do you have a date
Uhhh to what?
is it true fat white girls give the best dome?:)
Yes, yes it is.
-stella
I love your tumblr but I see a constant theme of self-loathing in what people post to your site. It's important that you think highly of yourself, even when it feels impossible. You honestly cannot compare yourself to other girls no matter what size they are because they come from different backgrounds/genetics. But I can say this: you control your body (to an extent, again, genetics can play a role). If you truly dislike yourself, make a change. Eat healthier, exercise. You hold the key.
This blog isn’t here to tell people whether they are fat or skinny, or that they would be happy if they lost weight, or that life is better at any particular size. Instead, we are simply a place for girls of all races and sizes to vent and commiserate about problems that they face on a daily basis. We didn’t create it for people to compare themselves, but more like a place where they are free to share and relate without the fear of judgement. But we do support girls who want to make changes in a healthy way.
- Olive
I'm 17 years old I'm 5'2" and weigh 215 pounds. There are days when I feel ugly and disgusting. But since I surround my self with positive people, who love me for who I am, these days don't happen often. Only when I don't get to see these people is when it usually happens. My tip for feeling better about yourself, is to surround yourself with people who are positive and love you for you, instead of negative people. (: Just thought I'd share! <3
Thanks for the tip! I agree with this. Positive people have made a huuuge and great impact, ultimately allowing me to focus on the positive things in my life instead of the negative.
- Olive
January 2012
91 posts
Im 13:3 5ft6 and 159 pounds, im so scared of what people think of me, i feel alone cause all my friends are so tiny like size zeros... and im just sitting here like size 9/10... 11/12 .. im so insecure, i feel the reason the guy i love wont ever feel the same, is because im overweight..:3 any ideas, on how to loose weight?
Just be healthy and remember not everyone is built the same way, you’re different. You’re still growing and when you’re older you’ll see everyone grows up and gets hips or thighs or something. Just remember to always eat healthy and exercise. <3
Hey! I used to be fat... or well, not fat, more chubby-like, but I went to school with a LOT of skinny girls when I was a kid. It damaged my self-esteem that I had to be called fat because being super skinny was the norm... Right now I'm about 5ft3 and 118 pounds and I've never been more proud, even though i have a little roll. Reading all the posts here made me recall all the bad memories and now I'm thankful for what I have and I want to tell everyone else: Fuck everybody, you're gorgeous.
Thank you for submitting :) we are so glad you made healthy changes to be happy!!!
hey i randomly found your blog and i just wanted to give y'all congrats. this is a great blog and i think it can potentially help a lot of beautiful women. beauty isn't defined by weight or looks. it really is the inside that counts. love yourself to the fullest :)
Thank you! We appreciate the support!!!
i just want to say, that for the most part weight is just a number. im 240. but im a size 14 and people guess im like 180 all the time. they dont believe me. and i dont understand my body type at all ( does anyone else have that problem? heavy weight but healthy frame? i feel alone lol) so the number really makes me sad, but if i don't look my weight and im extremely active in exercising then well i feel ok. the number doesn't define me, the way i live my life does. :]
This is more to the Anon who said they were 384. I am only 2 pounds shy of that. I wish I knew more people my size. I'd love to talk with you. If you want to diet, maybe we could be diet buddies. That always helps. If this doesn't post I understand, but I hope that they know they are not alone in that number.
