I saw a problem on here the other day that kind of made me upset to see. It was something about not feeling like your able to join in on conversations about sex and relationships. I know how that feels, to feel like no guy (or girl) will every want you because you’re classified as plus-size (my friends and I call it plus-sexy). Or even thinking that you’ll have to settle for a partner that YOU aren’t truly attracted to.
I just wanted to let all of the Sisters out there know that there ARE men and women out there who think that full sized girls are sexy. My boyfriend wouldn’t date a skinny girl if he was paid to. Three of my guy friends are the same way.
NEVER feel like you have to change yourself to get a partner, and NEVER feel like you have to settle. You ARE beautiful, just the way you are. Someone will find you to be absolutely perfect. They will find you to be sexy, beautiful, cute, gorgeous, breath taking; just like all of you are. If someone doesn’t like you because of your weight, be it a friend or a partner, I have one bit of advice. Get rid of them. No matter how much you care about them, if they aren’t okay with you the way you are, then they aren’t worth it.
You’re all beautiful. Every single person reading this is perfect. You just need to realize that and become confident in yourself. THAT is what will solve a lot of problems for you. Not losing a few pounds, but accepting those pounds and accepting yourself.